Thursday, September 8, 2016

Reflections On The Sixth and Seventh Sorrows of Our Lady

I remember back when I saw Mel Gibson’s “The Passion” when it was released.  Like all of you who saw this production, I was moved with sorrow and grief at seeing the visual portrayal of the brutal treatment of Our Lord.  Mel Gibson was able, it seems to me, to vividly portray the sorrowful and cruel series of events depicting the Passion of Our Lord.  In this sense, this movie presentation helped to portray some of the sorrows that Our Lady was forced to endure in regards to her Son.

Just as throughout His life, Our Lady followed the cruel events leading up to His death.  One of the titles that Our Lady has been given is “Our Lady of Sorrows,” or “Sancta Mater Dolorosa.”  One of the devotions in regards to Our Lady of Sorrows has to do with the “Seven Sorrows of Our Lady.”  These, of course, refer to the Seven Sorrows Our Lady endured in regards to her Son.  The final two sorrows in this devotion, the Sixth and Seventh Sorrows, we will deal with in this short essay:  “Our Lord’s Descent from the Cross;” and the “Burial of Our Lord.”

Our Lord’s Descent from the Cross


After His Crucifixion, we hear in St. Matthew’s Gospel, the taking down from the Cross:

When the even was come, there came a rich man of Arimathaea, named Joseph, who also himself was Jesus’ disciple: He went to Pilate, and begged the body of Jesus.  Then Pilate commanded the body to be delivered.  And when Joseph had taken the body, he wrapped it in a clean linen cloth.”  (St. Matthew 27:57-59)

As mentioned earlier, how can any of us ever imagine the intense pain that Our Lady felt for her Son during the events of His Passion?  After everything that she had seen . . .  after all the paid that she had endured . . . . what emotions must she have felt as she saw her Son taken down from the Cross?  Pain. Sorrow. Grief. Agony.  And, yes, most certainly even Relief.  Relief that Her Son’s torture was finished.  Relief that His pain was over. Our Lady now wanted most to see her Son taken down from the Cross, taken down from the instrument of His Death.   Surely, she did not want to see her Son left up on the Cross to continue the shame and agony He was forced to endure from those who hated Him.  As with all mothers who love their children so dearly, she did not want to see her child treated with such contempt and hatred. 

What lesson can we learn that Our Lady has taught us?  As Christians, we learn to have compassion for Our Lord in this world.  You see, Our Lady had no power over the forces that caused her Son’s death.  She could not stop the tragic series of events that led to her Son hanging on that Cross.  And yet she could do the one thing that she did His entire life:  try to comfort Him as best as she could.  Mothers tend to do that, don’t they?  So often, our mothers are there to comfort us when we are hurting the most.  And so often they do not know what to do to relieve us of our pain other than they do the one thing that they do best:  they embrace us and hold us while we are grieving.  They hold us to let us know that we have someone with us when we hurt.  They embrace us to let us know that we have someone who loves us. This is what Our Lady did when her Son was brought down from the Cross.  She did the thing that came naturally to her and to all mothers . . . . she embraced her Son even in His death.   We too should learn to comfort Our Lord when He is offended.  Like Mary, so often we will not have the power to stop those in the world from offending Our Blessed Saviour.  But like Mary we can do what comes natural:  show love and devotion to Our Blessed Saviour.  When we hear of Our Lord being mocked and hated in this world, embrace Our Lord and show Him your love.  This is what Our Lady did at the foot of the Cross:  she supported her Son when all others had left.  Thus, when we see Our Lord so cruelly treated by those around us in the world, embrace Our Lord and hold on to Him.  Support Him by showing Him how much you love Him.

The Burial of Christ

From St. John’s Gospel, we hear:  “Then took they the body of Jesus, and wound it in linen clothes with the spices, as the manner of the Jews is to bury.  Now in the place where He was crucified there was a garden: and in the garden a new sepulcher, wherein was never man yet laid.  There laid they Jesus therefore because of the Jew’s preparation day; for the sepulcher was nigh at hand.” (St. John 19:40-42)

Our Lady and the disciples of Our Lord buried Him with much care and compassion.  Keep in mind that surely each one of them that had gathered there must have been dealing with a whole host of emotions:  grief, agony, sorrow, confusion,  . . . .  And yet despite this whole host of emotions present in each one of them, they buried Our Lord with great compassion and love.  Despite the varied limitations that were in place, we know that the disciples of Our Blessed Lord prepared a burial place with much love, dignity and respect to their Blessed Saviour.  In their grief, they did their best to give Him a special resting place. 

As Christians committed to Our Blessed Saviour, we too are called to prepare a special place for Him.  In the book of Exodus we hear:  “The Lord is my strength and song, and He is become my salvation: He is my God, and I will prepare Him an habitation . .  .” (Exodus 15:2)  This is the lesson we can learn from the Seventh, and final, Sorrow of Mary:  to prepare a place for Our Saviour.  Even in the shadows of His Death, Mary and the Disciples prepared a special place for Our Blessed Saviour.  We can follow their example by preparing a special place for Him as well.  Where will this place be, you ask?  The one place He wishes to be:  in our hearts, of course.  If we each prepare a special place in our heart for Our Lord, imagine how pleased He will be.  Mary and the Disciples did their best to prepare a place for Him with as much care and devotion as they could possibly show.  They did this to show their respect and love.  We too much prepare a place in our heart out of respect and love for Our Blessed Lord.